NLP and the Law of Attraction

Chris Dreyer
Categories: Attraction

Neuro Linguistic Programming or NLP is a method to use your thoughts and actions to achieve what you really want in life. NLP believes that you can achieve anything you want if you apply your mind to it. Law of attraction also focuses on the same principle which says that whatever you will think of, you will attract. NLP and law of attraction, both stress upon the importance of keeping a positive attitude in life, focussing on positive intentions and outcomes and generally achieving a balanced and a happy life. So, what is the real connection between NLP and law of attraction?

The connection between law of attraction and NLP is that while law of attraction tells you to attract happiness into your life, NLP is the technique to do that. Law of attraction has three steps:

1. Conceive or Ask
2. Believe
3. Achieve

1. Conceive or Ask: Conception or asking is the first step of law of attraction. You need to first state the your intention for a certain outcome. Most people know what they want but have already thought and conceived the road blocks in their plan before actually charting out the course of action! Most people subconsciously feel that they are not worthy of achieving happiness and wealth no matter what they do. Their limiting beliefs prevent them from achieving their goals in life. Hence just stating your intention to the universe is not enough, you need to believe in it to achieve it! Here NLP is a great tool in manifesting the law of attraction. NLP works at dispelling your subconscious beliefs about your abilities and competence. NLP operates on dispelling these beliefs and clearing the clutter in your subconscious mind.

2. Believe: NLP helps you to believe in the power of your thoughts. While law of attraction is the principle, NLP is the method to achieve your aim. NLP reprograms your mind and makes you believe in your ability to manifest your desires

3. Achieve: Law of attraction says that you can attract all that you want in life. However, we need to be open to receive it and acknowledge it. NLP makes us believe that we are capable and competent of receiving what we ask for.

Law of attraction demands that you visualize your outcome and focus on the happy feelings. It says that you need to use positive emotions to express your desires. NLP focuses on the positive vibrations and feelings. NLP teaches you how to visualize your dreams and desires so that they become real. Visualization is the first step to manifestation. Hence, you need to visualize in order to attract the kind of life you want.

NLP and law of attraction are the two sides of the same coin. Each is dependent on the other. It wont be wrong to say that while law of attraction is the principle, NLP is the method to make that principle work. Together they can give you a great life!

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Mar
3

Using Attraction Principles in Your Business – Are You Skeptical?

Darrin Hawkins
Categories: Attraction

“I can see the logic in Network Marketing, but The Law of Attraction and Attraction Principles? I ask you. What a load of mumbo-jumbo!”

So says the hard-edged business professional who has always found success through the fruits of talent and hard graft.

Is there anything to it really or is it just the latest fad?

I must have spent hundreds of pounds over the last two years on stuff related to LoA: on books, online courses, watching “The Secret” on the internet, and various CDs that “retune” your vibration!

The cynic may argue that all this had absolutely no effect and that doubling my income, clearing my debts and getting a brand new car were all just coincidences. It was all really just the result of a more positive psyche….but why should I care what a cynic might say…?

Wallace Wattles (“The Science of Getting Rich”) “There is an exact science of getting rich, and it is an exact science, like algebra or arithmetic. There are certain laws which govern the process of acquiring riches, and once these laws are learned and obeyed by anyone, that person will get rich with mathematical certainty. ….Do not listen to arguments against this idea.”

Good advice from Wally Wattles. Obviously I highly recommend the book!

The movie “The Secret” has brought the Law of Attraction to a wider audience. It has generated a lot of interest and with it a market for all things associated with it. The cynics would wonder if the only people actually manifesting money are the ones selling law of attraction tips or life-coaches providing their clients with law of attraction coaching!

“The Secret” movie does introduce basic attraction principles but it is very simplistic.

It makes it sound easy and effortless. All you have to do is think the right thoughts and – Hey Presto – your deepest desires are manifest. You manifest money and abundant wealth.

Hmm. Sounds too easy.

The concept is simple. But that does not mean it is easy.

Wallace Wattles (“The Science of Getting Rich”) “There is no labour from which most people shrink as they do from that of sustained and consecutive thought. It is the hardest work in the world.”

It takes effort, but not physical effort. It takes sustained mental effort, self-training and continual correction until you are in a state of being that you can only describe as being “In the zone”, like a sportsman on the top of his/her form. You visualise whatever it is you want and you and the resources around you come together to create it.

Your mind is the blueprint, the architect, and the universe responds and brings about whatever it is you are visualising. It is almost like you get lucky!

As Gary Player was attributed as saying “The more I practice the luckier I get”.

The reason that some people find it so hard to put attraction principles into practice is because attitudes and beliefs can be very ingrained. Thoughts can become automatic responses and it takes a mental discipline to change your thinking.

Nonetheless using the law of attraction is an integral part of being successful in Network Marketing without hassle or hustle.

As we explore it and learn to apply attraction principles here we can remain pragmatic.

If you are skeptical then treat it as an experiment. Use the techniques and tools and see what difference they make…

Does Deliberate Attraction Ever Not Work?

The Law of Attraction ALWAYS works.

So when you attempt deliberate attraction why don’t you always get the reality creation you ask for?

The LOA does not work according to your conscious thoughts but according to your sub-conscious vibrational thoughts. It is Law and will always apply. Just like gravity.

“Deliberate Attraction” is when you harness the LOA to consciously create your own reality.

But…..

Do you have a nagging doubt?

Do you have a feeling that what you are asking for is more than you can receive, or more than you deserve?

Do you want something someone else has because you are envious?

Any sort of negative thought or emotion:

* Guilt & shame

* Negative emotions anger or resentment, jealousy, and pride

* Fear and anxiety & self pity

* Idleness

* Ingratitude

…will prevent you being on the right wavelength or frequency to be able to receive the answer you think you are asking for and will thwart the process of deliberate attraction.

It is rather like tuning your radio to the frequency of the radio station you want to listen to. If the music you want to hear is on 101.4 FM and you are dialled in to 97.2 FM you won’t hear the music!

So how can we get rid of the interference to our reception and be properly tuned in so that we can receive the answers?

1) – Guilt and Shame

Guilt, shame and the associated feelings of unworthiness will certainly knock the tuning dial away from the frequency you need. Like attracts like. How can your deliberate attraction include receiving abundance and manifesting money if you feel inside that in someway you don’t really deserve it?

Such feelings stem from doing something that we know or feel to be wrong, or a mistake that we have made in the past.

What can we do about it?

We can stop doing whatever it is that causes those feelings, which may not be easy as humans can have very addictive natures.

We can make restitution as best we can. If we have hurt or offended someone we can apologise and do whatever we can to repair any damage.

We can forgive ourselves. Often we are our own harshest judges and beat ourselves up when we needn’t. We can recognise that we are human and make mistakes, and move on.

Christians believe that Jesus atoned for our wrong-doings, that He paid the price and so takes away our shame and guilt. Other religions or beliefs suggest that there is no absolute right or wrong and so therefore we cannot dwell on the negative emotions but seek peace through learning from these experiences.

However I am not talking here about religion and salvation – that is a different conversation – just how to be effective in deliberate attraction and reality creation.

So if you have feelings like this that hinder the process then do what is necessary for you to feel comfortable accepting good things and lose any feelings of guilt.

2) – Anger, Resentment and Jealousy

If you have anger, resentment or jealousy you have to let go of it. As you forgive yourself and move on then forgive other people their errors. Take a view that they did what they did because they had not yet learned any better. Because that is the truth!

We have to overcome pride and recognise that there are greater powers in the universe than us, that we rely on. The air that we breathe the food that we eat is all provided for us regardless of what we do.

Pride means we are trying to take the credit for everything whereas there are normally a great number of different resources and people that come together to provide what we want.

We need to recognise that and stop being so full of our own importance.

3) – Fear and Anxiety

Fear and anxiety stop us from aligning ourselves with the answer and receiving. What is the point of asking and then fearing, doubting or being anxious? It is the same as going to an ATM and then expecting it not to dispense the money you asked for.

Dale Carnegie “Our fatigue is often caused not by work, but by worry, frustration and resentment.”

If we ask for our situation to improve, but then go back and wallow in self-pity or focus on what is wrong without attempting to reach for the better place ourselves, then how will we be able to hear the music that is being broadcast on a different channel!

4) – Idleness and Procrastination

You don’t get what you want and then put forth effort. You put forth effort first. If you don’t direct and improve your life no-one else will. Successful people do what others don’t like to do.

Magnify your calling in every area of your life. Live it to the full and give of your best in whatever you engage in.

We cannot excuse lack of work and effort on the basis that through deliberate attraction everything just lands in our lap. It won’t work quite like that.

We can absolutely learn and be inspired to work smart and be wise in what action we take, when and how. The headless chicken approach, where we do everything and run ourselves into the ground also betrays a lack of trust in abundance. It shows that we are relying on ourselves and trying to manipulate the process rather than let go and allow.

But doing nothing will achieve the same result – Nothing!

5) – Ingratitude

We can show gratitude by acknowledging all things that have worked for our good, including those more challenging experiences that have taught us wisdom.

Moreover if we don’t have gratitude we can very quickly fall into dissatisfied and negative thought regarding things as they are. Feeling grateful or appreciative of someone or something in your life actually attracts more of the things that you appreciate and value into your life.

There are Three Levels of Gratitude:

1 – “Circumstantial”, where we say thank you when things “go our way” or we get something we want. Try keeping a gratitude journal. Every day list half a dozen ways the day was good, or note something that went well. Do it every day. Write “Thank you”. See the difference it makes.

2- “In spite of” - where we don’t like something, but we know that the challenge or whatever is for our higher good and that we know there will ultimately be benefits, blessings and opportunities so we choose to be grateful anyway

3- “Continuous” – We live in a continual state of thankfulness, seeing the good in everything and everyone. We need to strive for this so that whatever our circumstances and experiences we can find something to be grateful for.

Baha u’llah: “A thankful person is thankful under all circumstances. A complaining soul complains even if he lives in paradise”

Rabbi Harold Kushner: “If you concentrate on finding what is good in every situation, you will discover that your life will suddenly be filled with gratitude, a feeling that nurtures the soul.”

We should strive to be in a state of continuous gratitude.

Work on these things and you will find that deliberate attraction of the things you really want becomes easier and faster.

Darrin Hawkins is a business consultant and entrepreneur http://www.attracting-wealth-with-network-marketing.com

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Mar
3

Law of Attraction – Science Behind the Belief

T. A. Whiston
Categories: Attraction

The law of attraction is more than just thinking positively and hoping for the best. In fact there is concrete science behind your innate ability to attract everything you desire. This article will explain the scientific nuts and bolts behind the law of attraction.

If you’re like many people you love the idea of being able to use the law of attraction to manifest the things you want in life. But you may have a problem letting go and fully believing this will work for you because it’s contrary to what the mainstream education and media systems call reality.

For the next couple of minutes forget about what the average person considers realistic. After all, how many “average” people do you know who are really happy with their lives? The fact is most people are not scientists, and therefore it’s not fair to assume the status quo reality has anything to do with scientific knowledge.

It’s sad but true: Most people are not comfortable believing they can really have everything they want in life. They’d rather play it safe and stick with the familiar ground of disappointment and struggle.

The law of attraction is real. It’s every bit as real as gravity. In fact gravity is one example of the concept of attraction in action.

Bodies in our solar system maintain their orbits because the magnetic pull of the sun. You and I are able to remain rooted on the earth because we are attracted to it by gravitational forces.

If you boil these forces and laws down you’ll see they are not unlike the laws behind attraction and manifestation. This takes a bit of expansive and even abstract thinking, but it’s quite logical if you take the time to ponder it.

Now let’s have a look at a few specific scientific theories/studies that support the existence of the law of attraction.

First of all you should be aware of the belief many scientists hold that time is not linear as we perceive it. In other words, many theories exist that time does not move from point A to point B the way we experience it; in fact time does not really exist at all as a natural law.

Time is a construct. It’s a phenomenon we as humans agree on as a way of managing our lives and the world around us. The truth is everything that could happen is happening right now, and our conscious minds identify and separate these events into different moments and possibilities.

In simpler terms, endless possibilities are actually taking place right now in an unlimited number of dimensions, or universes. And the human mind is consciously aware of only one of these realities at a time, thus resulting in the illusion of time progressing moment to moment.

Hugh Everett was among the first researchers to popularize this idea through the Relative State Formulation. Later Bryce Seligman DeWitt renamed this formulation the Many-Worlds-Theory.

Some people also call this belief in infinite dimensions or realities the Multiple Worlds Theory. Physicist John Wheeler, among many others, suggests that each of us chooses the reality or universe to observe from moment to moment, thereby creating our own distinct reality.

Think about this for a moment. Right now, as you read this article, you are observing/occupying a specific “timeline” or dimension; you have a job, a home, friends, hobbies, etc. But there could also exist simultaneously another dimension or reality where you are a multi-millionaire, or one where you have your ideal body, or one where you live happily with your dream mate.

One way to think of the law of attraction is to consider it the act of choosing which reality to observe. By way of focused intention you attract to you the exact reality you prefer to inhabit.

Another great theory to help explain the law of attraction is the Wheeler-Feynman Absorber Theory, which was originally designed to explain the actions of charged particles, such as photons. Consider this model:

You have a desire, thus emitting specific particles. This makes sense as everything in the universe is made up of energetic particles, including thought waves.

As the particles of your thought/desire leave the source (you), they send an offer wave forward in time to the detectors, or possibilities. When this offer wave, made up of your intentions, reaches the target detector, or possibility, the detector responds with an echo wave.

These two waves (offer and echo) can interact in a number of ways. They can cancel one another out, build on one another, or intersect in other ways within an interference pattern.

This is all taken from a model using particles and waves. But since your thoughts are measurable energy, i.e. particles and/or waves depending on the moment of observation, the theory is totally applicable to you intending or attracting one of many possibilities to yourself by sending an offer wave out to multiple detectors or realities.

You are essentially vibrating a specific intention, or offer wave, and then choosing which detector, or result/reality, to observe through your thoughts and actions.

So if you’ve sent an offer wave in the form of an intention to create more money, and your thoughts and actions are focused on creating this reality, you will attract the new result you want. Conversely if you’ve sent the offer wave of creating more money but your thoughts and actions are fretting your current lack and complaining about what you don’t have you’ll end up canceling out your initial intention.

This article really just scratches the surface of the science behind the law of attraction. But as you can see here the dynamics at play are very real.

And in most cases the reasons for not believing in your ability to attract a chosen reality are pretty far from scientific. Let’s face it: just saying “that’s not possible” really doesn’t measure up to the evidence that supports the law of attraction.

To learn more about spirituality and life purpose be sure to visit the author’s blog today: http://www.aboutlifespurpose.com

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Mar
3

Introduction – Using the Law of Attraction and Children

Nancy Stremmel
Categories: Attraction

There is a fine line when using the Law of Attraction…. Isn’t that an annoying way to start this topic, or any, but in truth there is a fine line between helping a child to believe in “you can do anything” and setting realistic goals. There is a fine line between helping a child to be in the here and now, the real world rather than a fantasy world, and yet helping them to push the goal just a little past their comfort zone. The Law of Attraction is both fantasy and reality, which is why I am talking about a fine line. It is a fantasy (visualization) that you treat as a reality (imagining that you already have it.) It works because your unconscious does not know the difference between fantasy and reality. Neither does a young child. This is a complexity of using the Law of Attraction.

By the age of five or six, the school expects a child to know that they don’t have a fairy godmother, they cannot fly, and dragons are not going to attack them after school. The school expects them to be ready to learn that firemen put out fires with water or fire extinguishers, and that they travel to the fire on a fire truck. Magic is not included. They expect the child to be ready to learn that bread is baked from a combination of yeast, water and flour, and that it rises without the requirement of a magic wand. They expect a child to be ready to learn that if they work at something, they can master it, and that they are not born knowing everything. Welcome to the world of reality and using the Law of Attraction. Their parents don’t have a magic wand, or, do they?

“I can’t do It!”

I am always distressed when I hear a child say, “I can’t” when s/he has not even given it a real try. I will repeat that. I am hugely distressed when I hear a child say, “I can’t” when the evidence is they haven’t given it a fair try. Learning is a process, and sometimes a difficult process, so the question is, what gave him the idea that he should be able to do the task without going through the learning process? Magic and using the Law of Attraction? An omnipotent spirit is stuffed into a babies body and they are born to one or two human parents. It takes a while before they understand that they, and their parents, are working by new rules and the limitations must sometimes seem severe. It’s better when they are using the Law of Attraction with their peers. What do I mean by that?

Did you ever watch children without parents or TV play? It’s the same as when they learned to walk. The process is a natural one. Children see what their peers can do and then they compete with each other. One child runs faster, and another child tries to catch him.

Three children ride their bikes up the hill, and the other child who used to get off and walk up the hill, works harder than ever to stay on the bike the whole way to the top. This is using the Law of Attraction. He has visualized the process with himself on his bike, he feels what it will feel like and then he sets out to do it. If this child is two years younger, he will be the first of his age group to master the hill and will feel the confidence and success of having his peer group chasing after his accomplishments.

Five children are jumping off the rock quarry cliff into the soft green water below. The last child who is afraid of heights, masters his fear and follows his peers with his eyes tightly closed. He might land wrong and slap his side or his back, but the redness is a badge of courage. His peers oh and ah and congratulate him. The next time, he might keep his eyes open so that his landing is less painful.

Back to the child who says, “I can’t.” I have never heard a child say it to his peers. He says it to adults. The way in which the adult responds will determine how this child deals with difficulty for many years to come.

You have a choice. You can support your child’s incompetence, or you can help him learn what it is to master a new task. When he is with his peer group, and sees them doing something that is hard, he sees that it is possible. When he is with you, he does not see how a “little guy” could possibly do what it is you want him to do. Your job is a little harder because you must give him both a desire to do something he doesn’t want to do, and a vision of success.

This is using the Law of Attraction.

How do you instill the dream or desire to learn to do a Karate Kata? He will do it to please you if he knows that you expect it. How do you instill the dream or desire to learn to swim? This is easier, I think. You can make swimming look like a lot of fun if you play in the water. Play with your partner. Play with some older children. Your child will learn that your family swims, and will want to be part of the family. It will be worth the water in the face, and the choking from swallowing or snorting a little water and the burning sensation from too much water in the eyes. This is using the Law of Attraction. It will be worth it to get to share in that fun that he sees you having. If you sit on the beach with a book, and the older children in your family sit on the beach, your child might not learn to swim. It just won’t be possible to instill in your child the vision of swimming out into the deep water, if his family isn’t swimming out into the deep water. It will be very difficult to make the water look like fun if everyone else is sitting on the beach. This is using the Law of Attraction because without the vision, he won’t do it.

Reading is the same process and requires using the Law of Attraction. If your child doesn’t see you reading for pleasure, thus developing a vision, how will he come to think that it is pleasurable? You might be lucky. He might see a baby sitter read for pleasure or a neighbor, or a grandparent. But, if no one in a child’s life is reading in the evening, he will only learn to read well enough to avoid embarrassment at school. Just as with the swimming, without a vision of reading for pleasure, he will have no desire. This again is using the Law of Attraction, unconsciously and in the negative.

Your fears and dreams will inflict themselves on your children. This is the Law of Attraction. If you are afraid that they will be hurt, and this is accompanied by a great deal of feeling, they will be hurt. If you are feeling joy at their discovery and mastery, they will continue to discover and to master new tasks. If you feel confident about their capability, they will feel confident and move forward to mastery with each dream.

The Pleasure Principle:

Children operate on the pleasure principle. This too is using the Law of Attraction isn’t it? As Jack Canfield and Mike Dooley emphasize; it is only when you muster feeling, joy, hope or ecstasy, that your dreams are going to manifest. Children feel the greatest joy and satisfaction when their parents smile at them, but the smile has to be more than a smile with your mouth. You must smile with your eyes and with your heart to really touch a child.

You know this. When you have a dream, and family or friends encourage you, you can do anything, but when they discourage you, it’s crushing. the Law of Attraction coach or master will tell you to stay away from your family, or at the least, don’t talk with them about your dreams. It is difficult enough to maintain a vision of your abundant future. When people you care about are either making fun of it or telling you it’s not realistic it makes it much more difficult. Napoleon Hill instructs you not to talk to anyone about your dream other than your master mind team. Wallace Wattles tells you not to talk to anyone at all about your visions!

Children follow this principle when using the Law of Attraction. They don’t talk in the beginning. They learn to smile, and you smile back at them. They learn to move their arms and legs, and you smile back at them. They learn to sit up or to burp and you smile encouragement at them. They learn to stand and to walk and you make a huge big deal out of it and they are happy. They see you smiling and sitting and walking and they want to be just like you. They have learned how to be successful.

When you are so ready to support your child, how is it that he has already by three or four years old developed an attitude that there is something that is not possible?

It’s the Little Things

Your child is jumping on your bed, and someone tells him to get down, “or he’ll get hurt.” When your child who has recently learned to walk is coming down the stairs and someone screams or jumps up to help, he gets the idea that life is too dangerous for him. The first time he decides to carry his dish to the sink, or to wash his diaper in the dishwasher…. When he falls down and skins his knee, he is a little shocked, but little children do not localize pain very well, so the one or two year old doesn’t feel the pain in his knee right away, and he does not know that endorphins are going to kick in and make the pain subside. If the reaction of nearby adults is one that makes him feel the pain and feel afraid, then he is learning to be afraid of challenge and of pain. This again is using the Law of Attraction to inhibit the child. If the reaction is one where he is praised for trying, and praised for being so brave, he will not be afraid of the next challenge, but will look forward to it. This too is using the Law of Attraction, for the positive outcome.

We are, almost every moment of every day, either giving a child a vision of a goal to strive for, or we are giving him a vision of a calamity he will also strive for. He will be using the Law of Attraction even when we wish he wasn’t.

In all fairness, other people can hinder him. If the baby sitter is afraid that you will blame any bruises on her care or lack of care…. If another child’s baby sitter is hysterical when he falls, your child might pick up that fear.

I have worked with fearful children, and it’s not easy to undo the instillation of fear. A child trusts a parent more than a teacher, babysitter or therapist.

Undoing that fear is a challenge.

Partiallize the task:

I want to go into more about how to do this in the next article, but I will give you some hints so I don’t leave you hanging. Climbing up onto a monkey gym might be frightening, but up one rung, and down, up one rung and down, up one rung and down is not. Always watch for the vision. What does the child get out of mastery. If he sees other children having fun climbing and sliding or jumping down, he will be motivated. If he sees other children getting hurt, he won’t be.

Start there. Find a park where children have fun.

Doing a whole Karate Kata might seem overwhelming, but one step at a time, and then adding a second step and repeating until body memory cuts in, and then adding the third, and so on, is not overwhelming and the child is learning to break down tasks into smaller, bite sized pieces. This is an excellent training process.

The next time the child has something to learn he will have the belief that he is capable of learning. He will have an image of himself as someone who learns and is successful at complicated tasks.

Nancy J. Stremmel is the co-owner and developer of: http://www.Mindbridge-LOA.com the compendium of information on the Law of Attraction. She is a writer, licensed Social Worker, educator, artist and therapist. She believes that everyone can make the Law of Attraction work for them.

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3

How to Learn the Law of Attraction – Step by Step

Adrian Abel
Categories: Attraction

How To Learn The Law of Attraction is now a hot subject. Many people are studying the Law of Attraction to manifest what they desire in life. From cars, wealth, family relationships to harmony with friends. Here is step by step on how you can learn the law of attraction.

1. Understand what is law of attraction

The law of attraction is when the Universe provides what you have been desiring into reality. If you desire a new laptop for example, the Universe will provide that laptop and make it appear in your reality unexpectedly.

2. Understand how law of attraction works

The Law of attraction works when you want it or not. It all begins with the mind. If you are thinking about something disastrous and you are very worried about it and believe it will happen, then this is the perfect recipe for the law of attraction to work.

The Universe does not know, whether you want that desire to happen or not. All it knows is that you have been thinking about it with belief and it is taken as an instruction to appear in your life.

3. What is needed for law of attraction to work?

When you practice the law of attraction, you need to meet the following requirements:

- thinking a lot about your desire as if you are experiencing it now
- have faith in your desire. Believe that it will manifest in your life with a doubt
- think of your desire in the present NOW. Not in the past or in the future.
- Visualize your desire. Actually see yourself and feel yourself experiencing your desire when you visualize
- Affirmation. Speak words to yourself which will gradually stick in your subconscious mind. Say positive things to yourself.

4. How do I know that I am applying the Law of Attraction properly?

If you are feeling happy and positive about your desires, and you are constantly motivated in your thinking, then you are applying the law of attraction. Think about it. If you are experiencing or imagining what you desire now, you are obviously happy about it. Vice versa, if you are worried and unhappy, then at that moment you are using the law of attraction in a wrong way. You are attracting the wrong things in life.

5. How fast does law of attraction work?

This is unknown. The law of attraction sometimes manifest our desires very quickly and sometimes they take weeks, months or years. All is known is that the Universe will receive your instructions, and then make situations happen which will let you receive your desire.

For example, if you are desiring a new car, then the Universe will probably arrange for a relative to win a competition and then pass the car to you as they don’t like it. There are many ways which the Universe will work to meet your desires. It takes its own time and uses its own way.

In summary, the Law of Attraction works and it involves you telling the Universe what you want with emotion. Using the above steps you are well on your way to learning the law of attraction. If your desires don’t manifest then you need to sit down and think quietly what the reasons are. The law of attraction works whether you want it or not.

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Mar
3

5 Important Guidelines For Attracting the Love That You Want

Caleb Anderson
Categories: Attraction

Attracting Love:

Attracting love does not involve much effort on the part of individuals. People looking forward to attracting love first need to start loving themselves, as law of the nature says, ‘love thy inner self so you love people around’. People need to figure out what they need to develop from within to attract people of opposite sex toward them. Loving self does not mean being arrogant or cocky. It means there is something to offer to other people.

Attracting love calls for estimating the worth of self. Almost everyone on earth craves for love. It may be challenging at times, but with discipline and little bit of effort, people may make their dreams come true and attract the love of their wish. For attracting love, a person needs to respect other’s views, feel for them and show enough concern toward their causes.

A kind and merciful nature of a person is bound to attract people irrespective of sex, faith and color. Be people of any origin and country, attracting love is a natural talent individuals need to develop with time and physical maturity.

Guidelines for Attracting Love:

Individuals have to go according to their strengths when considering the ways for attracting love. It hardly matters whether the strengths are external or internal. For instance, people with creative art may put across their skills through drawing abstracts of nature for attracting love.

People need to make the most of their time by locating and unlocking their potential so they are successful in attracting love. What you put across sure has an effect on people, either positive or negative. If you display your creative skills that generate positive results, it may possibly gain other’s attention and help you succeed in your goal. Consider the steps below to decide who might be the perfect match for you:

1. Look at your best friends for identifying their qualities that have a resemblance to your own and are indeed worth an appreciation. Your to-be life partner has to possess the same qualities as you find interesting in friends. Singles, who value better communication, have a desire to grow, are compassionate, spiritual and playful and possess a good sense of humor. You need to check for these qualities in prospective partners. Though attracting love having all these qualities is difficult, it is necessary to understand that such people do exist.

2. Avoid people who do not match your lifestyle altogether. If individuals go for a relationship with someone lacking basic human values and natural qualities, there are large chances of disputes in future. There may be a strain in the relationship. Within a quarter or say within a couple of months after marriage, partners may call it a quit. The idea to adapt to each other’s lifestyle may frustrate them.

3. Have faith in the possibility of having a loving and long-term relationship. Singles doubt they might never come across someone who is communicative, compatible and attractive. This is not true. Suffice it to say, having faith in prospective partners, wins half the battle.

4. Remain unattached while in the attempt to attracting love. Do not restrict potential partners from focusing all the attention toward attracting any mate. Dejected singles that are not in a relationship waste enough time looking for a perfect match. Take time until you come across the partner of your choice. Meet people and date them. Look for people who reciprocate your feelings. Keep away from someone who fails to represent your requirement.

5. Overcome the fear of being left or hurt. All relationships either come to a halt at a certain point in future by divorce or break up due to death. Each time you take a step toward attracting love, remember that the relationship has to build up strong and last forever.

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Discover Why You Need to Learn the Basics Before You Try to Use the Law of Attraction

James Utterson
Categories: Attraction

If there is a mystical power in the universe which could bestow great things on you, it may be the Law of Attraction. This will manifest you joy, riches, and physical & mental health. You just need to recognize how to utilize it. Some basic principles of the Law of Attraction can assist your progress.

A significant principle of the Law of Attraction is that what you think about becomes reality. What you think about is energy, exactly as the whole universe is energy. Whilst you contemplate your world, or merely let ideas enter your mind, you are determining your reality. You achieve this by way of the Law of Attraction. The energy you transmit attracts comparable energy. The universe then reacts to your feelings by returning the energy. This occurs for positive or negative feelings.

Another foundation in understanding the Law of Attraction is that it’s too challenging to monitor each one of the many thousands of thoughts which you have each day. The intention, rather, should be to nurture a feeling of well-being, joy and gratitude. This will achieve more than attempting to alter every thought one by one. Feelings are crucial to the Law of Attraction.

One guiding principle of those using the Law of Attraction is thus: ‘life is intended to be happy and fulfilling’. Unfortunately a lot of people believe that their lives will be nothing more than stressful work situations, miserable relationships, bad health, and a stack of debt. Unless these folks alter their attitudes, they will never discover the abundance that they can bring forth using the Law of Attraction.

There can not be a deficiency of anything which you desire if you employ the Law of Attraction. This is a further basic principle of the Law of Attraction. It signifies that there is plenty for everybody to have and to achieve what they desire. This is particularly so as many people want particular things and others want something different. The Law of Attraction, states that what you desire is always possible. One construct of the Law of Attraction can be expressed like so, “what you get is what you see.” The meaning in this instance is when you see an outcome, you will vibrate with energy based on it. If you see positive & good results, you will transmit good energy.

This energy comes back to you in the shape of more positive results. So, to achieve positive results, you must find a means to see positive in situations. If you see bad, more bad will return to you. Conversely if you see good, more good returns. This is how the Law of Attraction operates. The idea of asking for specific things is a component of the Law of Attraction. When you ask the universe for what you wish for, you can have it. To achieve this, you must have faith in the universe to deliver. Then, you must assume it as if you already have it. Then you’ll discover the Law of Attraction bestowing all sorts of fine things on you.

The Law of Attraction can be both complex and simplistic at the same time. You need only ask what you desire and you will receive. Yet, to do that with faith, you must work on to restructuring your complete way of thinking. To achieve this it is beneficial to study the principles of the Law of Attraction.

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How to Use The Law Of Attraction – The 6 Steps to Manifestation – Step 1 Of 6 – Feel Good

Rich German
Categories: Attraction

Unless you’ve been living under a rock for the past couple years there’s a really good chance you’ve been exposed to the Law of Attraction. While the concept is nothing new, the movie The Secret obviously brought it into the consciousness of the mainstream. As a teacher of the Law of Attraction for the past several years, I have noticed that while most people are interested in using the law to improve their lives, they need specific direction in terms of how to apply it into their lives. The intention of this series of articles is to teach you step-by-step, in simple and practical terms, exactly how to implement the Law of Attraction into your life so that you truly begin living a life full of love, happiness and abundance. All human beings are incredibly powerful and can create whatever reality they desire.

The attraction process as outlined here consists of 6 specific steps:

1.Feel good. This will be discussed in detail in this article.

2.Set forth your intention.

3.Take inspired action.

4.Release the how.

5.Be a YES to life.

6.Allow the intention to manifest.

Let’s begin with feeling good.

Step 1: FEEL GOOD!

I honestly cannot think of anything more important than feeling good. Call me an optimist but I believe that if each person on the planet was focused on feeling good on a consistent basis most of the challenges we currently face as a society and as a planet would quickly be solved. People who feel good don’t hurt other people. People who feel good don’t wage wars. People who feel good are typically not selfish and self-serving. People who feel good are more likely to be guided by love versus fear. So on a global level, the more good feeling, happy, loving people roaming the planet, the better. On a personal level, the better you feel the more powerful you will be in terms of your ability to attract and manifest your desires.

Understanding the Law of Attraction is pretty simple. Consider that all manifestation begins with feelings. If you are feeling good you will attract what you want. If you are feeling bad you will attract what you do NOT want… period. Your state of being attracts everything to you.

You cannot attract wealth if you are feeling poor.
You cannot attract health if you are feeling sick.
You cannot attract love if you are feeling unworthy of it.
You cannot be happy if you are feeling undeserving of it.
You must see yourself as you want to BE and from that point of being, you will attract what you desire. So the key is to consciously choose to feel good and then just stay in the joy.

Unless you are one who just naturally feels good all the time (which makes you a very rare individual), there are some powerful tools you can use to cause you to consistently feel good. Let’s discuss three proven tools for you to consider:

The tool of GRATITUDE

When you consciously choose to live in a state of gratitude, you will automatically begin to feel good. It is not possible to think about the amazing things in your life and not feel good! By focusing on what is good, you will attract more good into your world. (Conversely, if you act like a victim and focus on what is bad, more bad will come flooding your way). It sounds so simple… because it is!

Try on this exercise for the next 30 days. Each morning, ideally as soon as you wake up, list out at least 10 things that you are grateful for. You can write the list down in a journal or on your computer, speak the list out loud, call a friend and share your list with them or scream it out loud on your morning walk. There is no wrong way to do this; the key is to just begin each day focused on what is working in your life. Focus on what you are grateful for. It does not matter how messed up you think your life might be, you still have plenty to be grateful for. The fact that you have the ability to read these words tells me you are doing okay. In fact, I’d bet there are millions of less fortunate people around the world who would change places with you in a second.

I have personally been doing this exercise every single day for over two years now. I type it up and e-mail it every day to my buddy Mike in Chicago and he sends me his in return. Why do it I do it? Because I know I have the option each morning to either be grateful for the new day or to whine and complain. And you know what? Gratitude feels a whole lot better than whining and complaining! Plus I understand the power of feeling good.

In fact, try it right now. List out 10 things you are grateful for. In case you need a little help to get started, consider things like: your body, your mind, your soul, your children, your spouse, your significant other, your lover, best friends, your home, your car, your pets, money in your bank account, your job, your business, your country, the weather, your mother-in-law, whatever…

Again, try it on for 30 days and just see what happens. Living in a state of gratitude is essential to successfully use the Law of Attraction.

The tool of MEDITATION

I cannot stress enough the importance of meditation. Whether you meditate to simply calm your mind and feel a little more peace or if you do it to make conscious contact with your source and experience complete, utter bliss, meditation is an important tool when it comes to feeling good.

There are obviously many forms of meditation to consider. I personally practice something called Shakipat meditation. Shakti is the life force energy that beats your heart and sustains the universe. In this simple third-eye meditation technique, you connect with that energy and feel an amazing natural high.

I personally sit for approximately 1 hour each day and quite honestly it is hard to express in words how this has impacted my life. I feel a great sense of calm, peace, love and joy in my life. I feel connected to the world and everyone and everything in it. I feel grateful to simply be alive. Most importantly, in this conversation of the Law of Attraction, I feel good!!

The tool of EXERCISE

Beyond the obvious health benefits of a good exercise routine, let’s be honest: exercising makes you feel good. Maybe not always while you are doing it, but when you are done you always feel better!

So if you are committed to feeling good each day, commit to some form of exercise each morning. You can walk, run, lift weights, do yoga, make love (that got your attention)… just do something each morning to get the blood pumping and create some energy. The more energy you have, the better you will feel. I recommend exercising outside if possible… breathe in the air… connect with nature… connect with the universe, God, or source (whatever name you give to the power that created this magnificent playground we get to play in).

While there are obviously many other tools you can utilize in your quest to feel good each day, I strongly advise you to incorporate these three into your routine. In fact, the best guidance I can offer is to create a powerful morning ritual (routine) which includes gratitude, meditation and exercise. Again, try it on for yourself and see how you feel.

My advice is to make feeling good your highest goal. Live in a state of gratitude and you will undoubtedly attract to you all you desire and experience a joyous life. When you feel good, everything just flows.

Rich German uses The Laws of Attraction to teach his students to success, prosperity and to feelings of love and happiness. He offers monday night meditations, teleseminars, ebooks, audio downloads and much more!

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3

Applying the Law of Attraction – The Secret, Dr Wayne Dyer and Intentions

Joseph Rettig
Categories: Attraction

There has been a lot of focus on the Law of Attraction recently. Unfortunately, there has also been a lot of misunderstanding about what this law is and how to apply it. Applying the Law of Attraction requires more than repeating the same affirmation for fifteen minutes a day or simply believing that you deserve what you want and therefore you will receive it. An excellent formula that explains how to make the Law of Attraction work for you is Focus + Emotion + Action = Attraction.

In other words, you need to be very specific about what you want and focus clearly on this desire. You also need to generate the feeling of actually having the thing you desire. Imagine how you will feel when you have achieved your goal or received the benefit you are aiming for, including the feeling of gratitude. This kick-starts your faith and beliefs that you can really attract what you want. As Jesus is recorded as saying in the New Testament, if you believe that you already have what you are asking for, you will receive it. Focused attention supported by genuine belief (with all its attendant feelings) generates new opportunities and a new outlook, however you will still need to take action if you want to attract what you desire.

For example, if you focus on being slim and enjoy the feeling of being your ideal weight but still eat a high calorie, high fat and high sugar diet, you will not attract the results you want. However, if you are prepared to start making changes, the Law of Attraction will make it increasingly easier to do the things necessary to lose weight and if necessary it will act in a way to reorganize your life for success. You don’t have to work incredibly hard to attract your desires; you just have to work towards them.

The combination of focused attention and belief with emotion is what Dr Wayne Dyer refers to as ‘intention.” Intention acts as a command to the universe to realign your life for the success you are asking for. It is a powerful force that must be used wisely because you will get what you are asking for (focusing on) even if it is not really what you want. It is therefore very important to ask or focus consciously and wisely. It is usually our subconscious beliefs and thoughts along with our habitual emotions that sabotage our use of the Law of Attraction. We can conclude that the law itself is not working for us when, in fact, it is our dominant focus that is attracting the very things that we don’t want.

No matter how hard it is, we need to let go of the past and do what we can to heal negative emotions in ourselves. If we have been hurt and we focus on that hurt and feelings of betrayal and rejection, for example, we are actually applying the Law of Attraction to bring more of the same into our lives. This hardly seems fair, but the law is not personal. You can be deliberately focusing on your desires, feeling the emotions attached to receiving them and even taking the necessary action, but if most of your thinking and expectations are negative you will not only undo the good you have done, you will also attract the very things you don’t want.

Applying the Law of Attraction, therefore, requires discipline. It requires that you become very conscious not only of your thoughts and underlying beliefs but also of the emotions you are experiencing from day to day. A peaceful, happy frame of mind is necessary to truly attract the things you want into your life. An essential aspect of this is feeling of contentment and gratitude. You may feel that your current circumstances are so difficult that you have nothing to be grateful for. However, a basic premise of the Law of Attraction is that what you focus on grows. Focusing on the things you are grateful for will attract more things to be grateful for into your life. It is a spiritual discipline that will pay big dividends in the future.

The great cosmic news is that we are not limited to our material circumstances and the things we can physically do to change them. By applying the Law of Attraction we are able to transform our lives with minimal effort. Best of all the key to our success lies within each of us.

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3

How To Trigger Emotional Attraction With Women

Michael Dat
Categories: Attraction

Emotional attraction is one of the many familiar attractions people often associate in reference to relationships. This form of attraction comes about naturally and is sometimes referred to by others as chemistry. Emotional attraction is the key when it comes to establishing a relationship or marriage. If you are at lost as to what this means or clueless over generating emotional attraction towards the woman of your dreams, do not fret. Fact is generating emotional attraction is a very easy process, especially towards women.

The beauty of emotional attraction is that it is the key driver behind the sustenance of marriages and long-term relationships. These relationships last as couples feel mutually attracted towards one another, resulting in love. Two persons emotionally attracted to one another can interact with one another for a prolonged period of time, on a long term basis and not get bored of each other’s companionship. Without this sort of attraction, it is very difficult for relationships to work even if the couple is in close proximity and come into close contact with each other on a daily basis. In contrast, with emotional attraction, the lives of the couple would be synergized. This explains why long-distance relationships work out for so many. While in the cinema, love sparks seem to fly easily, the converse is observed in reality. For most instances, effort is necessary.

Compliments are a key factor to generating emotional attraction, especially towards women. Most women like to be praised for features such as their long hair or sparkling eyes. A genuine praise enhances a person’s self confidence and creates a positive connection between the person offering the praise and the one receiving the praise.

A positive attitude is another key factor. Men with negative outlooks on life tend to turn women off as the woman is unable to look towards his guy in times of need. In contrast, a positive nature would tend to attract a woman. She believes that the guy she is talking to can be counted upon for the both of them to work towards a brighter future and a better life. Adopting a positive outlook towards life is a surefire means of generating emotional attraction.

Adopting the right body language and emotions is also vital to creating emotional attraction. A man has to be confident of him and feel good in order to capture the hearts of women. Your body language should also display extroverted characteristics. This is important as it is the key to making people want to come close to you and interact with you. Introverted body language such as folding your arms when you come into contact with others will only serve to alienate others from yourself. Instead, work towards displaying extroverted body language. This could range from a firm simple handshake to offering greetings to people that have just come to know you.

To enjoy a satisfying long-term relationship, you will need to start off by developing emotional attraction with women. Do take note that emotional attraction should only be generated towards that special someone that you wish to have a relationship with. Observe the following and you can look forward to a healthy, happy relationship.

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